I feel so stupid now when I think back to the times I used to go out with a large group of people, and I was always so nervous, especially if it was with people I didn’t hang out with very often.  ”Is what I’m ordering cool?”  Really?  Did I really ask myself that?  Yes, I did.  So lame of me.  This was long before I really knew who I was, and wow am I glad I figured that out.